Published: 2 January, 2012

• I agree with Katherine Lennard’s sentiments – I too wish to be control of my death (‘We are all going to die. Who doesn’t want a say in it?’ January 19).

I haven’t got an incurable disease and I am not terminally ill, but I am untreatable, and have been for many years.

I live in constant pain (like someone with terminal cancer) because of a medical accident.

I would like the option of a dignified death; painless and, quick as opposed to a slow, painful, one lasting months or more.

I already cost the local taxpayer a fortune because of my care needs. This bill would only increase. I can’t afford to go to Dignitas in Switzerland.

So I have already sought and found people prepared to assist me – if necessary – at the right time.

I have written a living will; informed my GP and family, and have had counselling.

I am prepared as best as possible and even look forward to the day when I will finally be out of pain.

Meanwhile I try to live a happy life, and love to laugh, joke and enjoy each day for what it is.

Modern medicine can keep you going beyond the time you would naturally die. One of the things that may happen, if meals on wheels doesn’t start up again, is a slow death by starvation. Still, this already happens in our hospitals, if you are elderly or disabled.

I’d prefer it if others suffered less and their misery wasn’t long-term.

Why is it that some of us enjoy the enduring misery of others?

Gillian Arnold
Hilgrove Road, NW6